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      <image:caption>“I am the Executive Director of the Karen Organization of San Diego. Rachel and Betsy gave me skills and confidence that I will carry with me always. Everything I say, and how I say it, should consider the audience first. We have important stories to tell and without these stories my message would be forgotten. Working with ForAffect was a gift. ” — NAO KABASHIMA, KAREN ORGANIZATION OF SAN DIEGO</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Rachel and Betsy taught me a core principle that I’ll never forget: Make your point with bold power … and then stop talking. I engaged ForAffect to offer messaging workshops to several of our membership groups. Their insights, genuine warmth, and understanding of storytelling make them truly unique.. I’ll always be a ForAffect champion! SHARYN GOODSON, THE LEICHTAG FOUNDATION</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“I worked with Betsy and Rachel on several projects ranging from a TED talk to designing a new website. Their two styles, two sets of insights, and two points of view were a huge plus — I got double the value and double the feedback. Working together was a blast.” — RACHEL CHRISTENSEN, UNIVERSITY OF SAN DIEGO</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“You are a true pleasure to work with, ForAffect!! You transformed my business with the perfect tag line ‘Generosity Marketplace’ … exactly what my audience needed to hear. Your streamlining of my message for a funding source was invaluable. Thank you for being so much fun.” — FERNANDA COELHO, MATCH YOUR NEED</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“After many years as an organizational consultant I launched a new business. Betsy and Rachel persistently and patiently showed me that I needed to ‘land’ my message more squarely with potential clients. I needed to connect with their needs and dreams. They gave me tools that I will use moving forward. Thank you, ForAffect.” — DAVID NICOLL TRANSFORMATIONAL LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES.COM INC</image:caption>
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